Hi Ted. Well, thank you for asking. I guess I just don't post all that much here, anymore...really. The Mrs. took up with a guy here on G+....married guy, on top of it...and divorced me. Absolutely crushed me, as I never would have expected it....and still love her more than anything int he world, Ted. We still share the house together...and are friends and help each other.....but she doesn't have the love for me that I have for her. We still maintain a relationship...sort of on and off....and she's been off with the boyfriend for the past 4 days. She will he home tonight. He is back east and flies her here and there for little get together's ever couple of months. Yeah, it hurts like hell, but I love her that much, Ted.....I put up with them and help her in any way I can. She wants me to date...I've tried a couple of times, but it just doesn't work, as all I can think of is her. Sorry to dump all that on you...I know it's my problem....but I know you were sincere in your asking. She goes by her maiden name on here now and spends most of her time here flirting...pretty much with all guys. I suppose I spend a lot of time pretty depressed, Ted.
Wow! I understand little bits and pieces and hope only for the best for you. I was with someone long ago who had to act something like that. I hope time does it's thing for you a lot faster than it did for me. Perhaps spring will help with it's promise of rebirth and fresh life. May I say a prayer for you. I'd like to see a bit of sunshine come your way. I'd like to think that we have all started to ease into a new phase of peace and hope and would like to think that you can feel that also.
Thanks so much, Ted. Appreciate all your words and kindness. This has been going on for 8 or 9 months now....and it's not gotten easier...I'll say that. I have learned a lot from it. I think it's truly made me realize just how much I love her....and how far I would go for that love....and it's way further than I would ever have imagined. Not real easy for me at my age....I don't think about "starting over," as you can imagine. We do have agreements and take care of each other when it comes to medical needs and such....as neither of us trust anyone else with those decisions. I will give you my email address, Ted, if you would care to stay in touch with me by email. Feel free to do so at any time. I'm not overloaded with friends nor family, I can tell you that. LOL My email address is: stan.kain@gmail.com Always feel welcome to use it.
Hi Ted. Well, thank you for asking. I guess I just don't post all that much here, anymore...really. The Mrs. took up with a guy here on G+....married guy, on top of it...and divorced me. Absolutely crushed me, as I never would have expected it....and still love her more than anything int he world, Ted. We still share the house together...and are friends and help each other.....but she doesn't have the love for me that I have for her. We still maintain a relationship...sort of on and off....and she's been off with the boyfriend for the past 4 days. She will he home tonight. He is back east and flies her here and there for little get together's ever couple of months. Yeah, it hurts like hell, but I love her that much, Ted.....I put up with them and help her in any way I can. She wants me to date...I've tried a couple of times, but it just doesn't work, as all I can think of is her. Sorry to dump all that on you...I know it's my problem....but I know you were sincere in your asking. She goes by her maiden name on here now and spends most of her time here flirting...pretty much with all guys. I suppose I spend a lot of time pretty depressed, Ted.
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ReplyDeleteI understand little bits and pieces and hope only for the best for you. I was with someone long ago who had to act something like that. I hope time does it's thing for you a lot faster than it did for me.
Perhaps spring will help with it's promise of rebirth and fresh life. May I say a prayer for you. I'd like to see a bit of sunshine come your way. I'd like to think that we have all started to ease into a new phase of peace and hope and would like to think that you can feel that also.
Thanks so much, Ted. Appreciate all your words and kindness. This has been going on for 8 or 9 months now....and it's not gotten easier...I'll say that. I have learned a lot from it. I think it's truly made me realize just how much I love her....and how far I would go for that love....and it's way further than I would ever have imagined. Not real easy for me at my age....I don't think about "starting over," as you can imagine. We do have agreements and take care of each other when it comes to medical needs and such....as neither of us trust anyone else with those decisions. I will give you my email address, Ted, if you would care to stay in touch with me by email. Feel free to do so at any time. I'm not overloaded with friends nor family, I can tell you that. LOL My email address is: stan.kain@gmail.com Always feel welcome to use it.
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