Yep ted kelly Been there. And learned enough about myself to make me a wiser man I had thought. But living responsibly is also loving responsibly. Both parties must know this because 2 hearts are 1 in love. I still will have to learn more but any lesson learned will benefit if learned from and not forgotten.
Walter Gantt it's funny though that I can't practice and start making new response habits because I'm not in a close relationship. I'm feeling a sort of catch 22 thing happening....
Thanks Walter Gantt I appreciate that. Actually, your offer briings to mind a very interesting question. I have an appointment I have to go keep but I'll pose it to you later. Would you rather I ask you here or in a PM. (it relates to our instinct to try to help others)
PM ted kelly I too have that instinct. but everyone doesn't want help. It contains too much truth. It's cool anytime and I think my ph# is on my profile...
Thank you for sharing this with me today! I am learning that although it is important to love myself & use my head/common sense to determine whether the other person is grateful to have me or just wants what they can get from me. It ain't much fun being "brought down" & dragged thru the mud. LOL ♥😁
That was awesome..you're going to be ok eventually..you know that , wise man.
ReplyDeleteMost peeps I know say guy instead of man.
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ReplyDeleteYep ted kelly Been there. And learned enough about myself to make me a wiser man I had thought. But living responsibly is also loving responsibly. Both parties must know this because 2 hearts are 1 in love. I still will have to learn more but any lesson learned will benefit if learned from and not forgotten.
ReplyDeleteWalter Gantt it's funny though that I can't practice and start making new response habits because I'm not in a close relationship. I'm feeling a sort of catch 22 thing happening....
ReplyDeleteWell said ted kelly It's all so complicated.
ReplyDeleteted kelly I do understand. If you need to talk I'm here. I know that's not much help but......just let me know.
ReplyDeleteThanks Walter Gantt I appreciate that. Actually, your offer briings to mind a very interesting question.
ReplyDeleteI have an appointment I have to go keep but I'll pose it to you later.
Would you rather I ask you here or in a PM.
(it relates to our instinct to try to help others)
PM ted kelly I too have that instinct. but everyone doesn't want help. It contains too much truth. It's cool anytime and I think my ph# is on my profile...
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this with me today! I am learning that although it is important to love myself & use my head/common sense to determine whether the other person is grateful to have me or just wants what they can get from me. It ain't much fun being "brought down" & dragged thru the mud. LOL ♥😁
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