What one finds compelling depends on how one was brought up and other life experiences. Your friends may be seeing things from a different angle from yours, not necessarily a worse one. And they probably resemble you in background and viewpoint. If you tried out your ideas on your enemies, you might find much wider divergences.

What one finds compelling depends on how one was brought up and other life experiences. Your friends may be seeing things from a different angle from yours, not necessarily a worse one. And they probably resemble you in background and viewpoint. If you tried out your ideas on your enemies, you might find much wider divergences.
http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2015/03/16/should-philosophers-be-loners/?mabReward=A7